In all honesty, it is not easy to stand in front of a person to whom you are completely attracted and say “I like you.” Of course, it is not always necessary to do it, sometimes the attraction between the two is so obvious that everything flows in an incredibly natural way, but when it is not like that, what to do? If you find yourself in this situation, we give you some suggestions so that you know how to tell them that you like it.
Don’t give your nerves room.
It is clear that it is not easy, at any age, to tell another person that you like him, but it is always important to calm your anxiety and nerves a bit and let things flow in a more organic way. If you are too nervous, it may cost you three times as much to approach this person and talk about your feelings.
It is very important to feel safe, first because if you are a boy and you plan to tell her that you like her, you must remember that women are intuitive and that they quickly perceive what is happening, if you are filled with fears she will notice it and you could divert her attention. If you are a girl and you need him to know at once what you feel because the same thing happens, human beings in general are attracted to security, do not forget.
Less words and more actions.
No confusing statements, no endless talk, the message is simple: I like you, and that’s what you should say. Decorating it too much will only make you more nervous. If there is a friendship between you, maybe you could start by saying “I know we’ve been friends for a long time, but the truth is that I like you and I can’t help it”, simple, direct and even charming.
Beware of “over plane”.
Take that person to see the sunset, take him out of the city, say it in a super romantic restaurant, okay, it’s not that it’s bad, it’s that maybe it’s too much. Sometimes planning an event so much increases the expectation we have about it, and the beauty of a “I like you” is not in the environment but in the feeling and the words.
Romance with caution.
If that person is too special for you and you simply cannot imagine telling him how much you like him without doing it in a super romantic and original way, well, take your idea and carry it out, but remember that in the middle of the details it is good to from time to time keep it simple. A good tip is to make sure that this person is also romantic, otherwise you could look ridiculous.
The ways that we relate.
Sometimes we spend months and even years feeling attracted to a person without daring to speak because there is a friendship, because she is your friend’s sister, because they work together. These scenarios exist, and of course they tend to be more difficult to face, but if you really like that person, if you think that talking is the right thing, just do it.